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Babbling Bubbles

 

Around two weeks ago, A's phone rang at 3 A.M. His cousin was calling with heartbreaking news: his grandpa had passed away. We rushed to catch the earliest flight possible and arrived at his hometown around 10 A.M. Although the air was damp and sticky—the sky was cloudy, the burial was scheduled at 1 P.M.. I couldn't help but wonder why it took that long to lay someone to rest #iykwim—but who am I to judge anyway. When the time came, people stand up and began reciting duas, just then the light drizzle fell. I dashed into the house, grabbed my umbrella and opened it. Suddenly I realise some gaze were fixed towards me. Moments later, the drizzle turn into a downpour, and we hadn't even made it to the cemetery yet. Later that night I found out what had really happened.

They were trying to put you as a scapegoat, A said.

For what?

For the heavy rain falls earlier.

How was that even possible?

According to a local belief, opening an umbrella when the sky is cloudy, is said to invite the heavy rain to pour

 ... *so shocked I lost words*

and its black 

Would that make any different if I opened a white umbrella instead?

No, but people were pointing at you, A's wife, for opening an umbrella in such weather.

Is there any scientific research regarding to this? is there any correlation between someone opening up umbrella causing a heavy rain falls? Correlation doesn't equal causation either.

Listen, they don't get that as much as you don't get klenik.

I was left in disbelief.

I mean, broooo it's 2025 already and you guys still believe this stuff?!

Yepp, I came from different part of Java and yep, I had confirmed this thing to my friends and none of them heard about this superstition either. I even googled it—but nothing. Friends who lives in the city nearby also confirmed that around that time its raining cats and dogs. To this day, this whole umbrella thing still doesn't add up to me.

I took that as a serious accusation; it implied that I dishonored grandpa's funeral for causing the heavy rain, for ruining the funeral ceremony. Some said "when in Rome, do as the Romans do". Well, I guess I won't be setting foot in that part of Rome ever again.

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You know, sometimes life could be harder when you’re the least favorite among others. Be it your parents, your boss, your teacher. It hurts when you are treated like you’re invisible.

Back in elementary school, I was in this team of 3 (the other 2 are my seniors), joining a competition among Islamic Schools in the city where some of the subjects were things I was actually pretty good at (Arabic and Islamic History—okay don’t laugh). Not a surprise when we finally got the 2nd winner. The bizarre thing was, when we, the team, were supposed to take a victory photo, and suddenly this coach of ours asked me to get out of the frame and replaced me with another relative of his—the kid who didn’t even go to the same school with us! That was so weird on so many levels. I earned that position and he mindlessly made me out of the picture. I know I shouldn’t hold a grudge over something trivial like this but man I can’t deny that that was humiliating. I kept thinking about it until today since what he did still makes no sense to me.


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Akhir-akhir ini orang kantor saya mengungkapkan apresiasinya secara gamblang, seperti:
"Terbaik, fast respon sekali.. thank you so much ya mbak"
"Mantab.. service excellent"
Saya curiga mereka abis dapat semacam pelatihan komunikasi oleh perusahaan ato gimana.
But anyway, that small appreciative gesture really made my day.

Another highlight of this week was, dulu saya pernah bikin sistem from scratch yang alot banget tektokannya sama klien gede.
Dan seperti biasa, orang gak akan mengapresiasi ketika kita bekerja secara benar, tapi akan menghujat kalau pekerjaan kita salah.
Gak kerasa 2 tahun berlalu, pekerjaan tersebut bukan saya lagi yang handle karena saya dibuangmutasi ke divisi lain (hehe). Nah orang yang menggantikan posisi saya ini memakai sistem baru yang dibuilt sama Kadeptnya; orang yang dielu-elukan dan dipertahankan banget banget sama mantan Bos saya. Ternyata output yang dihasilkan nggak presisi dan besarannya selisih signifikan jika dibanding sistem yang saya bikin. Padahal dulu I have warned my late boss kalau sistem yang dia bikin is a bit off. I know semua orang punya style sendiri-sendiri, tapi ketika akurasi dan vailditasnya questionable, apakah masih bisa dibilang outputnya benar? yang ujungnya nilai meleset jauh dan bikin geger kliennya.
Endingnya my late boss minta pengganti saya untuk minta sistem yang pernah saya bikin.
Just think about it, masa iya sistem yang dicreate seorang kroco macam saya lebih dipercaya kevalidannya daripada punya Kadept? 🙈

Saya sangat menghargai orang-orang yang acknowledge hasil kerjaan saya.
Cerita gini di blog buat reminder kalau saya beres loh kerjanya.
Cuma saya gak banyak cuap-cuap and mastering the art of licking ass aja 😛

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No offense but I thought having lunch at a fancy restaurant with wild animals being displayed, separated on a thick glass is kinda lame 😷

It breaks my heart whenever I see someone I know posted about that.

No matter how the restaurant make its cage looks like its natural habitat, well, it IS NOT. They are supposed to be wandering around in a more wide area, not a pathetic limited space like that. God made lions strong legs for them to run, not just sit around for you and your family to watch. The same goes to penguins with their flippers.

One thing that I always be grateful for is that I never ride elephants and take photos with lion or tiger when I was a kid.

I was sure that I wasn’t scared at that time, I just felt that something was OFF but I simply couldn’t explain about it.

Eventually as I get older, I realise that we humans did not deserve that so-called-entertainment-involving-wild-life. Most of the process about wild animals being exploit like that is never ethical.

Just, think about it. Does God make wild animals just simply to entertain you humans? 

The fundamental reason of their existence in this universe is beyond that.


Remember a dolphin being kept on a small, chlorinated pool in Bali that went viral all over the world? Remember the elephants you ride is being beaten thousand times in advance just so they could follow the guides instructions?

Remember how the tiger cubs being taken away from their mothers, and get trained until they could be calmed and heavily stuffed so you can sit next to them and smile like an idiot? Remember how cruel is it to train a monkey into topeng monyet?


If you want to show to your kid a wild animal,  buy a book, or just change your channel into national geographic. Or you can just simply look it up on youtube.

If you can afford to safari park, then go see one.

Do not be lame like that.

Just let them be.

End of (one way) conversation.

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So, there's this person who love listening to religious preach on youtube.
OUT LOUD.
DURING OFFICE HOURS.
Not to mention, some of the speech tend to encourage people to pick one of president candidate for the upcoming election. Disclaimer here: I don't do politics but from what I see, recently religion issue is used by politicians against another candidate.
Of course, despite whatever preach she plays on her speaker, it is bugging us, her office mates, in so many level. It is still okay if someone play 80's dangdut music loudly, but ceramah religi?
Come on!
This is a freakin' office, not your own house.
We work in a team that demands a full concentration because one small mistake could lead us to a huge mess. I mean, to get a work well done, we need a professionally conducive situation, right?
I've already talked to my boss to shut her off, since he spent days outside hopping from one meeting to another so.. I guess he never seem to be bothered about it.
Then here I am, attempt to scold her whenever I could to until people around me said, 'that's way harsh, za!'
Ugh I can't stand any longer listening to preach that mostly yelling in an unclear pronunciation.
I don't mean to disrespect the elder person, nor to look down my own religion, but I just wanna show 'get-your-fucking-headset-and-listen-it-on-your-own' kinda gesture, that's all.
Since she never get that savage remarks, whenever shes up to it, I (and others) avoid the noise by plugging in an earphone and listening to our playlists instead.
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In the last few months I have spent my money to something that was not working at all. I talked to myself to stop and breathe and think before swiping or transfering some amount to other account but you could say that it is just my (bad) luck after all.
These impulsive habits somehow leave me with less cash to survive in the end of the month besides that tons of money I blew up everytime my friends ask me to go out on weekend.

There was one time I gradually checked on groupon website if there were any good offerings. I often score some good deals ie. discount on dairy queen and sour sally 😝 Later, I ended up on this ‘discount on certain facial treatment at miracle clinic’ page.
I am not so fond of facial treatment but when I looked at this page I thought ‘why not?’ Without checking it further I assumed that it was the so-called-miracle-clinic-thats-famous-in-Surabaya therefore I purchased it for two people.
 Yepp.
At first I thought it was the soft opening promo at Supermal Karawaci so I went there, but after few rounds it took me minutes to realize that it actually was not there. It was located to a pretty luxury housing near the mall. By the time I got to the actual place, I was so disappointed since it was a totally different clinic and appeared to be a sketchy one with a small waiting room.
I did not think twice to leave that place 😂 I would rather let the coupon expired than get my face to be treated by some random yet unprofessional therapist.

Another bad things I ever experienced are caused by reserving train tickets and hotel via apps recklessly.

... I reserved on the wrong date. Twice.

Even in the end I could manage the cancellations for train tickets and cost me 25% of the price, unfortunately the same thing did not work for hotel bookings. So there was one time I managed to book some hotel rooms for my family in Semarang. I got a mini heart attack when the hotel review request suddenly pop up on my screen. Why should I add review when the stay is still on the next three days? But after having discussion with the receptionist and the apps call center, I could not get my money back 💸. I had to pay a freakin' hotel room that I did not even use. Poor me ☹️

To be concluded, to manage your own money is a thing, but to be careful in spending every penny you have is just another thing you should master at in adulthood 🙂
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